Monthly Archives: April 2024

The reason for truth and transparency

There are, basically, two ways to do things. The right way and the wrong way. Not related to the time that you get results, but related to the outcome. The right way is in most cases, the difficult way. So many people use the easy way, that commonly is the wrong way. Lying for instance requires less effort than saying the truth. Why? Because to say the truth you need to spend time learning about the facts of reality. And that is not easy. It is much easier to make up things and to say whatever comes to mind just because it is easy.

Now, when we were young, at least that happened to me, we were told to be truthful. In fact, in some religions like Christianity, truth has a very high value. At least is two articles in the gospel of John we read about the importance of truth. One John said that Moses brought the law and that Jesus Christ brought grace and truth. Later in the same book of John, we read how Jesus said: “Through me, you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free” Clearly in these we see the importance of truth.

We see, also, the connection between truth and freedom. So, it seems to me that the opposite of truth is not lying but unfreedom. And we want to be free. That is a good reason to be truthful, to live a truthful life. It implies too, that the lack of truthfulness will produce the chains of unfreedom, the hardship of a life full of misfortune. Even if for some time the fruits of lying appear to indicate that you can get away with lying. But we know that in the end, lies will need more lies to sustain until you get to an unsustainable situation.

On the other hand, even as it might be hard, being truthful will allow you to be free. Free of the need for more lies to sustain a life full of misery. Being truthful will provide the freedom to be, whoever you are, with peace of mind and the natural satisfaction that your are doing the right thing, even if it is not easy!

Happy for no reason

It is common to be happy for a reason, your birthday, the birth of a child, seeing a loved one that you have not seen in a while, yes there are many reasons to be happy.

The questions is: why would you be happy for no reason?

The power that you have by being happy for no reason comes from the fact that being happy for no reason is up to you alone. When you are happy for a reason, the happiness will be dependent on that reason. Let’s say one is happy for a birthday, then the following day when it is not longer one’s birthday there is no reason to be happy. For some that would even be a reason for being unhappy!

Today is the day after my birthday, so I am happy for no reason. But wait! now that I think about it, I have many reasons to be happy. My family, my friends, my life! So starting with being happy for no reason I find the many reasons to be happy. So, there you go. Being happy for no reason is the door to happiness for many reasons.

I love Paradox, life itself is a paradox.

One of the problems I see in today’s society is the need for equivalence, and thus we create a bunch of false equivalences. For example what I just wrote about “Being happy for no reason” is not equivalent for “Being unhappy for no reason.” Happiness and Unhappiness are not equivalent opposites. Yes, of course, we could just change the previous paragraph from happy to unhappy but the meaning will not be the same.

The world is better when people are happy, it is obvious but then why is that we don’t recognize the need for more happiness and the need to be open and intentional about it? We need to do a better job spreading this idea. So far hate and war are leading the way in the news, bad news sells better that good news, it is an evolutionary effect on humanity. But we are now in the XXI century and good news need to drive the world.

Make yourself an agent of happiness. Let’s get together in this movement of happiness. Let the world wakeup to a new, better, reality of happiness for no reason.